Outsourcing Your Dating Life? Here’s What That REALLY Looks Like with a VA
"Wait... A VA Can Help with Dating?!" The Truth About Executive Romance Support
Yes, You Read That Right!
Let's be real—when I tell people a VA can help with dating, I get THE SAME reaction every single time:
👀 "Wait... you can hire someone to do THAT?!"
The answer? Absolutely yes. But don't worry, we're not swiping for you or pretending to be you in the DMs. That would be weird for everyone involved! 😅
Let's talk about what having a VA support your dating life ACTUALLY looks like (and why it might be the game-changer your love life needs).
So What DOES a Virtual Assistant Actually Do?
Here's the deal: as a busy executive, you've got meetings back-to-back, decisions to make, and a team counting on you. The last thing you have mental bandwidth for is figuring out which night you have free or scrambling for a dinner reservation at 4:55 PM.
That's where we come in! Think of us as your dating logistics squad:
1. We Make Your Profile Actually Look Like You (But Your Best You!)
Ever noticed how some people's dating profiles just... work? That's not an accident! We help by:
Getting those profile pictures sorted — Including booking photographers who specialize in natural, non-awkward dating photos (yes, this is a real thing and the results are AMAZING)
Helping craft a bio that sounds like you — Not generic "I love travel and dogs" stuff, but one that actually reflects who you are
2. We Handle All Those "Feel Good" Pre-Date Details
Let's be honest—walking into a date after a crazy day of meetings when you haven't had a haircut in weeks is not exactly a confidence booster. We take care of:
Booking that haircut you've been putting off for "just one more week"
Scheduling any self-care appointments from nails, facials - anything you want (guys, this means you too!)
Helping with outfit options — Whether that's connecting you with a stylist, clothing rental delivered to your office (love Hurr) or finding the perfect outfit for that rooftop bar, we’ll help arrange it.
Making sure you can just SHOW UP feeling like your best self
3. We Plan Dates That Don't Involve "Grabbing a Coffee" For the Fifth Time
Coffee is great. But as a dating strategy? Kinda boring after a while. We help by:
Finding date spots that match your vibe — Fancy? Casual? Adventurous? Quiet conversation? We've got options!
Making reservations so you're not awkwardly waiting at the bar
Creating date ideas based on both your interests — Because impressing someone is about showing you've paid attention and listened, details matter.
Having backup plans for when the weather doesn't cooperate with that perfect outdoor concert
Real Talk: Why This Actually Works
I had a client—who's the CEO of a global company. Super smart guy, genuinely kind, but absolutely ZERO time to think about dating logistics.
Not long after after we started helping him:
He met someone fantastic and we planned their second date over ice skating and cocktails 💁♀️
She still teases him about how she thought he was "so thoughtful" for planning that ice skating date until he confessed it was his VA and she complimented us!
They're still together years later, we recently planned their anniversary trips and are helping them find a home together.
Here's the truth: Our client is thoughtful. He just needed someone to execute on that thoughtfulness when he was slammed with work.
Is This For You? (Quick Quiz!)
Do any of these sound familiar?
You've been meaning to "get back out there" for... approximately forever
You've planned last-minute dates that were... let's just say less than impressive
You genuinely want to meet someone but can't seem to make it a priority
You've ghost-disappeared on matches because work got crazy (it happens!)
If you're nodding your head, you're exactly who we're talking to!
Beyond Just Getting a Date
The best part? Once you actually meet someone great, we don't disappear! We can help with:
Remembering important dates (because forgetting anniversaries is never a good look)
Planning special occasions that don't involve panic-buying flowers on the way home
Making sure your relationship gets the attention it deserves, even when work is chaotic
Ready for our help?
Dating doesn't have to be another stressful item on your to-do list. It should be the fun part of your week—the part where you get to be yourself, meet interesting people, and maybe find someone who makes you want to leave work at a reasonable hour once in a while.
All you have to do? Show up and be your charming self. We'll handle the rest.
Ready to give your love life the same level of support you give your business?
Let's chat! Reach out for a conversation about how we can help.
